Wednesday, September 10, 2014

Wednesday Night Blog #6


Wednesday Night Blog #6

September 10, 2014

By

Tom DiCaprio

 

 

 

     I am going to begin this blog by getting the obvious out of the way.  Tomorrow is the thirteenth anniversary of the September 11, 2001 attacks.  Yes, the world changed forever as a result of the attacks that resulted in the War on Terror.  Until then such an attack would only occur in a novel that authors such as Tom Clancy would write.  He wrote about a hijacked plane that was used as a missile that would crash into a building in his 1994 novel Debt of Honor.  Since then countless authors, myself included would write about the next catastrophic terrorist attack.  Hopefully such an attack will never occur, however with the rise of ISIS we cannot afford to put down our guard especially now.  That alone would be a grave mistake.  ISIS is the biggest threat facing the United States along with al-Qaeda when it comes to terrorism.  Despite this, Fareed Zakaria brought up something the other day in which Osama bin Laden said before his death that he ordered al-Qaeda members to create fake terror groups that were actually al-Qaeda itself in order to throw off the United States and our allies.  Oliver North mentioned in a Facebook post that I read where he mentioned various terrorist groups and their leaders fighting the U.S. and our allies whether it be together or separately.  Well all I have to say is that we cannot rule out the possibility that they are in fact working together as one al-Qaeda unit, but are pretending to be separate terrorist groups in order to throw us off and then they would come together and the War on Terror proceeds to take a disasterous turn for the worse since they played us like a game of chess (yes a Fugees lyric reworded and paraphrased in the process). 

     As for 9/11, it began the road that would result in my transition from an aspiring mystery novelist who dreamed of writing a spy novel but didn’t think I could do it to a three time published spy/political thriller novelist.  After Wolf Blitzer discussed a scenario of a dirty bomb attack at a presidential inaugural in January 2005, I began to believe that I could actually write a Tom Clancy-esque spy novel after all.  The rest is now history. 

     A week ago tonight I read a Facebook post by a friend of mine which said that a Rochester, NY police officer was shot.  Little did I know how monumental the story would become in the Rochester, New York area where I live.  The next morning I was listening to the radio when it was announced that the officer who was shot was the first Rochester Police Department officer to be killed while on duty since 1959 and that the suspect who killed the officer was shot as well as an innocent bystander.  That alone is very sad, but it was what happened next that would give this an even greater meaning.  The officer had left behind a wife and two children.  The suspect in the shooting had been recently paroled and for the second time in as many weeks that a slip up in the parole check in system resulted in a very violent crime.  The first crime as a result in the incompetence of the parole system was the rape of a teenage girl.  If the Rochester community was already outraged as it was, then more communities especially nearby East Rochester, New York (where I live) became further outraged when the name of the officer was released.  A friend of mine mentioned on Facebook that her cousin was the officer who was killed without releasing his name.  The moment I read on Facebook that the officer who was killed was Daryl Pierson, it hit home for me.  I knew Daryl and his family.  His mom and my mom were very close friends when they were co-workers at Wegmans Food Markets.  I had been among a group of friends who attended a gathering at Daryl’s home a couple of years earlier.  He was working that evening.  Why do these kind of tragedies happen to good people.  Daryl had returned to work a day earlier after being on medical leave for eight months and his son’s first day of kindergarten took place on the day that he was killed.  Thousands of people attended the wake as well as the funeral.  I had never been to a police or military wake and I hope that such a tragedy never grips Rochester, New York or its surrounding communities.  I gained a greater appreciation of law enforcement and what they have to endure on a daily basis.  I was even more amazed by how the Rochester area came together.  This gives community a whole new meaning. 

     With that I will be closing this blog until next week.  Until then take care.

Wednesday, September 3, 2014

Wednesday Night Blog #5 September 3, 2014

Well everyone Summer 2014 is now in the books.  What a summer it was. Between the ball games and crash I was in not to mention getting my third novel "Deception" published it was a memorable one to put it mildly. Did I mention the writing hiatus that I am taking until November 1? *laughs* well it led me to writing "The Wednesday Night Blogs" that you will be reading right here. This the fifth "Wednesday Night Blog" although it would have been the sixth if the accident didn't take place three weeks ago today.  With that here's the latest:

     I've been questioning whether the hiatus from novel writing that began on July 25 was such a great idea or not.  Since last Wednesday I have been thinking about ending the hiatus/sabbatical and resume writing novels once more.  At the same time thoughts about my National Novel Writers Month project Gladio has been on my mind a lot.  After some thought, I will be beginning to conduct research for Gladio while continuing on with my hiatus/sabbatical.  With NaNoWriMo being 59 days away and I've survived the first 40 days without writing a novel, it looks like I will be at the half way point by next Saturday there is hope for me!  A fun part of NaNoWriMo will be the kickoff party that begins at 11pm Halloween evening and ends six hours later a local all night diner.  I feel that this will be an amazing experience for sure.  I cannot think of a better way to resume writing novels.

     Enough on the discussion about my writing.  It's time for the fun stuff.  I am on the minor league baseball withdrawal patch *laughs again* due to the season being completed for both the Rochester Red Wings and the Batavia Muckdogs.  I managed to get 144 autographs this season which is a personal best!  The interesting part was that I got 100 of the autographs since August 11.  I plan on shattering my personal best next year!  In fact I'm beginning to get ready to shatter the record by scoring out some of my baseball cards of minor leaguers who will be passing through both Rochester and Batavia next year.  The scenery that I checked out during my three trips to Batavia last month was breathtaking.  The open country with farm houses had a classic American heartland feel to it.  I felt relaxed each time that I saw the views.  I think it would be cool to make a fall drive to Batavia and see how the area would look in autumn.  I have no question that it would look even more breathtaking than it is right now.

     While I am on the subject of fall, it is an awesome time of the year. Although I could never put a finger on exactly why I feel this way it is the aura of fall that is special in itself. As I am sitting here typing tonight's blog I'm enjoying my first pumpkin spice latte of the season.  Hopefully there will be many more in the next few months.  Football begins tomorrow night and I consider it to be more than a sport.  To me it has become a national holiday that begins on the first Thursday in September and ends on the first Sunday in February.  Last night was the first of two fantasy football drafts for me.  The next one is tonight at 8pm which means that I will be wrapping this blog up.  Be safe everyone and enjoy the football games if you are a football fan.  I will be checking out a First Friday Gallery night in a couple of days and the last art festival of 2014 on Saturday aka Chlothesline Festival at the Memorial Art Gallery in Rochester, NY.  Ah yes I forgot to Rochester Antiquarian Book Fair which is near the Memorial Art Gallery on Saturday too.  All this will be in between the football and baseball games that I will be watching. With that take care everyone.

Tom

Wednesday Night Blog #4


Wednesday Night Blog #4

August 27, 2014

By

Tom DiCaprio

 

Note: This blog although written on August 27 was not published until tonight due to a series of events that sidetracked me.  Here it is.

 

 

The other day, I was on Facebook and I saw a post from a friend of mine which I immediately decided to share.  In a lot of ways it hit home with me because I went through or am still going through some of the rules that it mentioned.  With that I will now be sharing the post here too.

 

7 Rules of Life

 

1.      Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up your present.

2.      What others think of you is none of your business.

3.      Time heals almost everything, give it time.

4.      Don’t compare your life to others and don’t judge them.  You have no idea what their journey is all about.

5.      Stop thinking too much, it’s alright not to know the answers.  They will come to you when you least expect it.

6.      No one is in charge of your happiness, except you.

7.      Smile.  You don’t own all the problems in the world.

 

Whisper of the Heart

 

I decided to open this week’s Wednesday Night Blog with “7 Rules of Life” because it has applied not only to my life’s journey especially the past twenty years which has culiminated in the past two weeks, but also since it will be a theme in my National Novel Writer’s Month project Gladio that will be started on November 1 as well as most of all I feel that everyone can benefit and learn from the “7 Rules of Life.”  Twenty years ago, I was a college student who had transferred to a college that I have always dreamed of attending.  In the Fall of 1994, everything seemed to be going right in my life.  Then I was involved in a crash in which I had to more or less put everything on hold for a few months.  The “dream” then became a nightmare.  I then endured a series of personal problems among which was regret.  There was also anger along the way.  I felt why did my life come to a standstill?  Why does everything become a disaster every time that things are going perfect for me.  This was not the first time that I felt this way.  Things were going perfect on three other occasions when it came completely undone.  Death (the loss of my father, grandmother and fiancĂ©e) were the first three times that this has occurred. Over the next few months I made the decision that if I had a chance to do something that I would just do it.  At times those decisions were not the best, but I wasn’t feeling regret for the most part.  Yet I was battling my past where I knew that it could all come undone yet again. 

     Then slowly things began to change.  I was yet living that “perfect” life working at a job which I was completely happy with when I lost my Mom.  However this time although things were coming undone, my friends were there for me and it made a difference.  They did not come completely undone.  In fact things gradually began to come together for me.  I realized that I have a lot of friends who are family to me.  I began to reconcile with my past while exploring my dream of writing in earnest.  I have since self published three novels.  Then came the crash two weeks ago where my car was damaged and I injured my back.  I was really beginning to live that “perfect” life again when there seemed to be yet another setback.  Everything seemed to playing out like the events of the months leading up to and including the crash.  Well this time it did not come undone.  I decided to atone for the past and redeem myself for it.  This time it is working out well.  I’m doing the things that I enjoy doing although I had to modify it somewhat, but I’m happy because of it.  I feel that I have become stronger because of everything.

1.      I’m not allowing the past to keep me down while I have made peace with it. 

2.      I no longer pay attention to what others think of me.

3.      Time is now healing wounds.  I chose to give it time unlike the past.

4.      I’m no longer comparing my life to others. 

5.      I’m now allowing the answers to come to me.

6.      I’m learned to be in charge of my own happiness and I’m happy because of it.

7.      I’m now smiling while accepting the fact that I don’t own all of the world’s problems.

I know that it took quite a while for me to accept it all, now I want to share this with everyone knowing that if I can help out even one person with this then I’ve done my duty.     

 

With that the fun part of the blog now commences.  I did some more autographing at the ballparks this week.  Between the trips to Frontier Field in Rochester, NY and Dwyer Park in Batavia, NY in the past ten days, I now have set a personal best with 122 autographed baseball cards in a year.  There’s still some more baseball to go so the number will likely climb.  The Rochester Red Wings are in the thick of the International League Wild Card Race.  We are a game and a half out of the wildcard and I like our chances of clinching it.  I feel that I’m more into baseball than I have been in recent years (Which is saying a lot).  I feel that I’ve been 67% into it since 2010 until now which would be the equivalent to a lot of people being 110% into baseball.  The MLB Waiver Trade Deadline is Sunday.  Which MLB team would like Bartolo Colon?  Mets could use a solid prospect or two.  Just saying.   Well it is now September 3, 2014 and Colon is still a Met.  Anyways as for those series of events that sidetracked me, well they were unexpected but nothing major.  Next blog will be published within the next few hours. 

 

Take care.